David and Bathsheba

Text: 2 Samuel 11-12

Wrong place

  • David is at his best when he’s under pressure, and he’s at his worst when he relaxes.  David has come off an incredible victory.  He gathered Israel and completely obliterated the Syrian army and many kings that served Syria.
  • Sin works when you quit fighting.
  • Staying out of the fight will get you into trouble
  • 2 Samuel 11:1 …the time when kings go forth to battleBut David tarried at Jerusalem.
  • If you’re not in the fight you’ll be doing something else.  That something else is no replacement for being in the battle.
  • David is putting himself in a position to sin.  His adultery with Bathsheba is premeditated.
  • If you want to dig down real deep, the reason you’re not in the battle is because there is sin in your heart.

Willful pursuit

  • Sin is not an accident
  • 2 Samuel 11:2-5 – sin occurs when opportunity meets some appetite or lust of the flesh
  • David sent and enquired after the woman.  James 1:13-16 –  to sin
  • Temptation is then offered on a branch you can reach.
  • Your own lust is something that is in your heart to do – you don’t use the same bait with a fish as you do a lion
  • Don’t judge someone else’s temptation because you have your own temptations.
  • The truth is that you sin because you enjoy the sin.

Wicked perversion

  • Your heart is desperately wicked, no exceptions
  • 2 Samuel 11:6-27 – David spends the rest of the chapter trying to cover his own sin
  • Cover up is worse than the sin.  The quicker you can get to God the quicker this episode is over.
  • David brings Uriah home to be with his wife, but Uriah refuses because his men are in battle.  
  • David tries to get him drunk to get him to do something drunk that he won’t do sober, but Uriah still does not go lay with his wife.
  • David then sends Uriah to the front of the hottest battle with orders to Joab to retreat and leave Uriah in the hands of the enemies so that he dies.  David covers his adultery with murder.
  • At the end of this chapter David has not looked up to God one time, and now God is going to get involved.
  • David is a good man, it’s scary to think he could get into this mess.  It reveals the truth that your heart is deceitful and desperately wicked.

Welcome preacher

  • Thank God for preachers
  • God sends a Preacher – 2 Samuel 12:1-6 – Thank God for Nathan who is willing to point his finger in the king’s face.
  • No one says you have to be David or Bathsheba in this story, be Nathan!  Help restore someone by telling them the truth with restoration in mind.
  • Nathan tells a parable to awake David’s conscience.  David is angry over the man’s lack of pity for a little lamb in the parable, but David has just committed adultery and murdered a man and he is angry over a lamb?!
  • We are good at pointing the finger and magnifying the sin of someone else and minimizing our own sin.  God understands my sin, but that guy over there…

Wise posture

  • Repentance is the right response to God
  • God’s word to David brings conviction – 2 Samuel 12:7 – Thou art the man.  David has the right response to this.
  • Remember that sometimes the grace of God takes the shape of a preacher pointing out your sin.

Woeful probation

  • Forgiveness does not eliminate consequences
  • 2 Samuel 12:13 – David repents and is forgiven by God.  His sin has been put away – Psalm 51 & 32
  • 2 Samuel 12:14 – Forgiveness doesn’t mean consequences are nullified.  David is forgiven, but there is still a baby.  You can be forgiven and still living with consequences of sin.
  • Compelling reason to train your children, to stay out of the world and away from sin is because if they ever get hold of something it will run its course.
  • 2 Samuel 12:23 – God takes the baby.  Babies go to be with the Lord.
  • 2 Samuel 12:24-25 God gives David and Bathsheba another baby that proves God has put the sin behind Him.

Winning priority

  • Sin does not mean a shipwrecked life
  • 2 Samuel 12:26-29 – David has to get back in the battle, he has to put himself back in a position of obedience.
  • If you don’t return to a place of obedience, you will repeat this process.

Well pleasing

  • God has crowns for fallen people who get back in the fight!
  • 2 Samuel 12:30 – God has forgiven, David has restored himself to a position of obedience and God gives him a crown.  You may have lived in sin for 30 years but began to be obedient.  God will say to you for the years you spent serving Him, Well done thou good and faithful servant.